INFJ Compatibility Chart

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Who INFJs Are Most Compatible With

INFJs are not only rare but can be difficult to get to know, even when dating. They tend to focus on others more than themselves and are great listeners. They are skilled in picking up on red flags but have trouble taking action in the present. As a result, an INFJ relationship is full of paradoxes. If you’re dating or trying to date an INFJ, download this guide with our top 20 pieces of practical advice for dating an INFJ.

INFJ’s personality compatibility is based on the cognitive alignment of the types, their temperament, and their interaction style. INFJs are as follows:

Cognitive functions: Ni Fe Ti Se
Temperament (Kiersey): Idealists
Interaction style (Linda Berens): Chart The Course

There is no perfect 100% compatible match. INFJs are scored for their compatibility with other personality types based on four factors- communication, passion, friendship, and partnership. A match that is high in one is often lower in another. It is up to the individual to decide which factors are most important for them in a relationship.

Communication

INFJs have the greatest compatibility in communication with types that share the same cognitive functions. The cognitive functions are like languages our minds speak and when someone has the same functions, we do not have to translate our minds to them. INFJs speak the languages of patterns and social connection. As a result, INFJs communication compatibility can be broken down as follows:

High Compatibility: INFJ, ENFJ, ESTP, ISTP
Medium High Compatibility: INTJ, ENTJ, ESFJ, ISFJ
Medium Low Compatibility: INTP, ENTP, ESFP, ISFP
Low Compatibility: ISTJ, ESTJ, ENFP, INFP

Partnership

For partnership, INFJs are most compatible with EP types- meaning ENTP, ENFP, ESTP, and ESFP. Together, they are the most efficient and get the most done. The two balance each other out in terms of roles and preferred task focus. Furthermore, their working styles do not clash with each other, preventing conflict and complacency.

Friendship

For friendship, INFJs tend to be compatible with fellow NJ types. This means they have the greatest compatibility for companionship with INTJs, ENTJs, ENFJs, and INFJs. These types see the world through a similar lens and so can easily get along and enjoy activities together.

Passion

INFJs have the greatest amount of passion compatibility in a relationship with those that have opposite cognitive functions to them. For them, ENFPs, INFPs, ESTJs, and ISTJs are polar opposites to them and create a spark. However, this passion can also turn to the most electric fights. These types together are the most likely to resolve their arguments with “physical activities.”

Who INFJs Are Least Compatible With

INFJs have the greatest amount of conflict, and thus least compatibility, with the personality types that have opposite cognitive functions. When two people with opposite perspectives come together, they are bound to conflict eventually. While all couples have arguments no matter what their types, below are some common points of conflict for INFJs with other personality types.

Incompatibility with TJ types- ESTJ, ISTJ, ENTJ, INTJ

The TJ’s focus on efficiency can bulldoze over the harmony of the group and other people’s feelings which distresses the INFJ. The INFJ interprets this behavior as being an “a*-hole”. Conversely, the INFJ’s focus on group harmony can forsake efficiency. The TJ interprets this behavior as being a pushover or fake to make other people happy. The TJ’s directness can hurt the feelings of others. The INFJ then feels responsible to clean up the TJ’s “mess”. Finally, the INFJ’s need to fit in and empathize first can put their own interests and truth at jeopardy. So, the TJ feels responsible to clean up the INFJ’s “mess”.

Incompatibility with SJ types- ESTJ, ISTJ, ESFJ, ISFJ

INFJs are driven to move towards a singular vision for the future. However, SJs prefers to maintain their system for what has been done in the past. So, the INFJ sees the SJ as stuck in their ways. Conversely, the SJ sees the INFJ as moving too quickly into the unknown. Both appear immovable to the other.

Incompatibility with NP types- ENFP, INFP, ENTP, INTP

The INFJ seeks to narrow down to 1 meaning/path while NPs seeks to expand to many meanings/paths. INFJs are determined to “know” while NPs are determined to never truly “know”- closing vs. opening possibilities. Then, conflict arises over time wasted brainstorming by the NP but not deciding as the INFJ wishes to do.

Incompatibility with FP types- ENFP, INFP, ESFP, ISFP

To the FP, the INFJ can appear fake and seem too concerned with fitting or people pleasing instead of being themselves. To the INFJ, the FP can appear “selfish” and seem too wrapped up in themselves rather than getting along with others. The INFJ focuses on the group rather than the individual. Conversely, the FP focuses on their own likes and identity over the group harmony.

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