The core elements of love and a healthy relationship are trusts, respect, attraction, and investment. According to TypeMatch Relationship Dynamics, here is how those elements align for ENFJ Relationships:

Trust:

ENFJs trust those who they view as good people. They trust those who act morally and are have strong values. They distrust those who do not express their values or appear to have the wrong values in the ENFJs eyes. Furthermore, ENFJs trust those who show appreciation to the ENFJ for what they do.

Respect:

ENFJs respect those who are able to dive deep into meaning and discuss possibilities for their future. When an ENFJ respects someone, they will develop future plans to work with the person or be with the person. If they see that a person is unable to understand the future implications and meaning behind their actions, they lose respect for that person. If they lose respect for someone, ENFJs simply won’t waste their time with them.

Attraction:

ENFJs are initially attracted to those that they can have fun with in the moment. ENFJs have a playful side and love to create shared experiences for those they like. They are drawn to those who love to take in and share in these experiences and appreciate them. Conversely, they are annoyed by those who force them to think back instead of moving forward.

Investment:

When an ENFJ decides to invest in a relationship, they dedicate themselves to thinking about that one person over worrying about the needs of everyone else. They open up and share their real and honest thoughts with the person that may not be so nice but are true. You know an ENFJ likes you when they tell you what they really think. If a breakup happens, the ENFJ can feel as if the world doesn’t make sense anymore.